growing out curly hair
I happened across this video today…. It was on my “recommended for you” list on youtube. I thought her advice was great and I wanted to share it with all of you. I know your first reaction might be “I don’t have African hair, this won’t help me.” Trust me, it’s not a matter of race, it’s all about hair texture. I figured out a long time ago that products and techniques African women use for their hair will many times work perfectly for me! Straight hair and curly hair are cared for and maintained in different ways, sometimes the information will even contradict between the two. That’s ok. Methods will even differ depending on how curly your hair is. Choose what works best for your hair type. So if you have curly hair, her tips will be helpful to you. I do almost everything she lists here.
I browsed her youtube channel and found it interesting that she had been relaxing her hair since she was a child because her mom didn’t really know how to care for it. She grew up not even knowing what her natural texture was! Her hair wasn’t super damaged from it, but out of curiosity she cut off all the relaxed part and started fresh and has been growing it for two years.
I think this is a great example of what has been happening for ages with curly girls. Especially when the mom has straight hair, she has no clue how to deal with a curly haired daughter. She treats the daughter’s hair the exact same way she treats her own straight hair. And it doesn’t work! I see this a lot and it makes me sad because the daughter grows up hating her hair and thinking the only option for making her hair look good is a flat iron or blow dryer. Ladies, do your daughters a huge favor….. If their hair is a different texture than yours, learn about how to care for it properly and teach her how to as well. Don’t help her grow up hating her natural hair!